10 Rules Of Love


Love knows no bounds, fears no rules and runs blind. So, are there any rules of love after all? Well, there really are no straight forward and hard and fast rules of love, but there are indeed some things which, if remembered, can make your love life beautiful, even more than before and can make it last forever after. Following are some easy steps (unfortunately often taken for granted and never taken care of) that, if you follow properly, you will be able to have a great love story:

 

Rule 1: love your beloved: does it sound funny? Funny as it may seem, this rule of love is more often forgotten than you can imagine. Do not take love for granted. You may think it is easy, but trust me it’s hard unless you never forget to keep on trying. So, the core mantra and the first and foremost rule of love is love! Abide by this rule forever, remind yourself that how much the other means to you! Your love story goes on forever.

Rule 2: be truthful. Never lie to him/her. This is not always easy. So? How to follow this rule? Whenever you are going to do something, stop for a second and ask yourself, can you talk to him/her about this thing that you are attempting? Yes? No? It becomes easier to decide, isn’t it?

Rule 3: take care of your beloved: always take care of the love of your life. If you practice this care, it will never let any sort of distance take control of your happy and successful love life. A little bit of pampering, a little notion of love in the form of care will make life better.

Rule 4: do something special: It gives immense happiness to be able to do something for the other person. Even if you know he/she can do it on his/her own, or it is something habitual. But still, go on. Do something special for him/her. This will make both of you smile at the end of the day and make you feel more in love than before.

Rule 5: talk out the problem: it is only natural to have problems; starting from very small to very deadly. Keeping quiet or not blurting it out at time is like not hitting the iron when it is hot. If such crucial moments are let pass by, the only thing that will enlarge is distance, and love will start going away. You really do not want that, do you? So, one very crucial rule of love is to talk the distance away. Misunderstanding is a killer, misinterpretation is deadly. Please do not let the distance be the winner.

Rule 6: listen, listen and listen: be a listener at times. I know this rule of love is kind of opposite to the previous one. But this is the beauty of love. There should be a blend of flavors, if not, it will leave love insipid. So, do not always try to be the talker, listen to the lover. He/she deserves a chance to talk out his/her mind as much as you do, right?

Rule 7: be friends: many people believe that before becoming lovers, you first become friends. Well, in my opinion, this is not true. Why? Because, you really do not have to cross the line of friendship and get ‘promoted’ to the level of love. You can remain; you must remain friends simultaneously while being lovers to make your love story more meaningful. Friendship adds an edge, a very powerful one, creates synergy for love.

Rule 8: give time: do not become so busy with your professional life that you end up ignoring the best part of your life. After all, you are working hard so that you can live happily ever after (at a certain level of lifestyle!) with your beloved, right? Never let work create a distance between you two and thus insult your love.

Rule 9: give space: no matter how close you are, you both deserve a personal bubble where no one should have an entrance. A little bit of time only for one. Don’t be oppressive or possessive or annoyingly demanding. It is sometimes very hard to control yourself, but it is necessary. Remember this rule of love for a better love life.

Rule 10: reminisce old memories: talks about good old days that bring smile to your face, make you feel passionate, these feelings rejuvenate your love, invigorates you and revivify the love that has always been there, but may be not exercised lately.

 

So, what do you think; simple, right? These rules of love are indeed simple apparently. But they are very hard to always keep in mind; and in order to achieve eternal love, must follows.



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