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Hack the Mind

Hack the Mind is one of the essential tool for Success. We live in a highly Competitive Environment where we compete not only with people in our envir...

 

Hack the Mind is one of the essential tool for Success. We live in a highly Competitive Environment where we compete not only with people in our environment but also against us. Our success or failure is relative and depends upon how we perceive the outcome of any situation. But human beings tend to ignore the failures and at times undermine their own success too.  There can be other situations where we may never wait for the outcome but prefer to Quit from the whole scenario with reasons justifying our own assumptions. The moot point always remains that deep inside our heart there is always an urge which remains unsatisfied and bugs us in all future endeavors. Finally when such incidences repeat we tend to develop an opinion which is no different from that of a Loser.

 

Our mind needs to be trained and if that doesn’t works it needs to be hacked. There is nothing unethical about hacking except that it is a different way to solve to same Problem. Traditional, unorthodox solutions sometimes lose their charm and this is where hacking comes into the Picture. Hack the Mind is no different because of the powers it posses to push human beings for success. It is a habit that needs to get developed and there is no harm if hacking is one of the tools which help you to develop it effectively.

 

So Let’s talk about success and failures and how “Hack the Mind” comes into the picture

Whenever you tend to start something new

1)    You get bored easily

2)    You lose the momentum

3)    There is always an interruption

End Result

1)    You do it for sometime

2)    You stay away from it for sometime

3)    And then you finally quit

Have you ever thought why this happens? Infact you are not alone but part of larger Pool

1)    Yes, this happens to all of  us

2)    This has happened to me

3)    This has happened to you

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But if this has happened to all of us then why we have People like

1)    Michael Jordan

2)    Tiger Woods

3)    Michael Phelps

Definitely, Because

1)    They were Persistent

2)    They showed Resilience

3)    They were determined

And If you think they Never Failed, You are Wrong.

1)    They were not born Professionals

2)    They Learned from their Failures

3)    The learned the art of staging a Fight Back

And they defeated No one else, but- They Defeated their own Mind.

Its All in the Mind- They persisted because they developed the Art of Controlling their Mind.

Remember

1)    You are never tired

2)    Your Body is never tired

3)    Your soul is never tired

It is the Mind which plays Mind games and makes you win or lose

And if it is making you Lose then Hack the Mind

Put it into play when you realize that

1)    You are giving up

2)    You are avoiding some situation

3)    You are planning to Quit

If nothing motivational like

1)    Words of Some Guru

2)    Good Books on motivation

3)    Words of your Family or Mentor

Is helping you than You need to “Hack Your Mind”

Hack your Mind is an art to

1)    Win in situations where you tend to lose

2)    Carry on in situations where you tend to Quit

3)    Show your existence

The best way to Hack the Mind is to

1)    Start Small

2)    Enjoy The Journey

3)    Work Towards Big

This You need to Do Keeping the Ultimate Goal in Mind

Important thing which you should remember is that

1)    You Start Small

2)    You score small win

3)    You learn from failures

Think of the Old Saying, Rome was not built in a day.

Take an example-

1)    You have Joined Aerobic Classes for weight Loss

2)    You lost 2 pounds in 2 months at time when you wanted 20 pound loss

3)    You quit your classes not because you are disappointed but because you are impatient.

Or

1)    Your Body says you cannot do 20 crunches

2)    You do 6 crunches, you think you cannot do more

3)    You quit

Whereas the reality is Aerobic like any other Game is all about Mind. You mind makes you do more or less.

Hack the Mind,

1)    Program it for small wins

2)    Calibrate your Expectations

3)    Enjoy the small win

Hack Your Mind not to Look for Instant Win but Gradual Accomplishments.

When you think you are losing

1)    Extend your target beyond your last point by a bit

2)    Rally yourself to achieve the new point

3)    Enjoy your success

And Most Important, Be Prepared for Next battle of more Magnitude and the one that requires more effort

1)    Big things needs investment

2)    You can work towards them

3)    Patience is the Key here.

 

Hack your Mind to realize the fact that it takes time to make it a Big. If you Do that, You will have all the Qualities that makes you a Winner.

Try It

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How to Attract People like Magnet

 

Attracting People like a Magnet has always been at the top of human wish list. From Politicians to even the introvert next door guy, everyone likes to be loved and known. Being Popular, Famous or even Rocking are nothing but forms of attracting people. It is essentially a Personality that emanates a Charisma which pulls people more like a Magnet. We may envy such people or work against them but truth remains that it is an inherent inbuilt quality that has no match. At same time does it mean that only few people posses this quality while others can never see its magic? Definitely Not just because when we talk of Personal Development everything is Possible. Yes, once you have done a complete assessment of your present situation and have signed up for growth nothing can stop you.

 

 We have numerous examples of people who are known and famous in this world. Again we have many people in our social circle who again are popular though their scale or circle of influence might not be at that larger level. These are those people whom everyone loves, they want to talk to, or they want to talk about. These are those people who attract others so nicely that we fail to find any specific reason of their charisma. They seem to posses every other quality on earth which makes them Rock in their social group.

 

What is different about these people? What make it so special about the way they conduct themselves.

1)    Are they born with special qualities

2)    Do they take some special training

3)    Do they posses some special secret

No. Definitely Not

So what is different about them? Let’s talk about your best friend. Why is he your best friend?

1)    Because you like him as a person

2)    You can rely on him

3)    You can depend on him with your important work.

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Not True, Think Again

1)    You depend on him emotionally

2)    You know there is someone who will be on your side to hear you out

3)    You know you get solace while talking to him

Have you ever thought what he do that makes your friend so Special

Basically, your friend does nothing but he Genuinely takes interest in you.

1)    He is Genuinely Interested in what you talk

2)    He is Genuinely Interested in Your Problems

3)    He is Genuinely part of Good and bad phase of your life.

 

Extract this habit àBeing Genuinely Interested in Other People” and apply to the People around. Yes, go ahead and do that

As of now in any conversation your focus is

1)    Always “I”. Yes you always talk about you

2)    You talk about your priorities

3)    You talk about your problems and interests

 

Never ever you have shown interest in the person in front of you

1)    To care about his problems

2)    To know what he likes or dislikes

3)    To listen or even bother about his priorities.

Even if you did that, Have you ever done it Genuinely ?

I don’t think So………………..It is always “I” which takes precedence over all other things.

Now, Do the reverse

1)    Be Genuinely Interested in other people

2)    Be Genuinely interested in what they say

3)    Be genuinely interested to help them out.

All you need to do is

1)    Be Selfless

2)    Hear them out

3)    Be interested in them

It works.

1)    People like to be Loved

2)    People like to be Adored

3)    People like to be Helped

4)    People like to he Heard.

If you can do it…….you are up for Success

From now on in any conversation

1)    Show your Interest

2)    Done talk about you, talk about them

3)    Be open to render you help.

And you would see the difference. You would see unexpected change in how People Accept, Respect and Love you.

Try It.

Photo By- Vjeran Lisjak, Croatia

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