A lot of women go into the wrong relationships with the wrong men. Being a woman, you are the one they walk up to and tell how much they love you. ...
A lot of women go into the wrong relationships with the wrong men. Being a woman, you are the one they walk up to and tell how much they love you. Whom you say yes to is who comes in. Knowing the right man for you might seem difficult but not as a horse passing through the eye of a needle. What are required of you are caution, wisdom and patience if you wish to find true love. True love is detected by the way it comes. So has he come into your life the right way?
There are some necessary procedures that a man must not shortcut when starting a relationship with you. The vitality of these protocols is brought about by the aid they lend in making the most favourable decisions about the relationship – to say “no” or a “yes.” The protocols include:
1. He should get to know you
Practically all relationships in which love exist never started with love at first sight. In fact, I don’t believe in that. This man in question getting close to you is the starting point. Here, observe whether he is that man that only wants to spread his luck wide. He shouldn’t spend so much time with you on the first meeting. Let him make everything brief and to the point. Let him get to know your name and never forget to know his. A man who gets off on the wrong foot on the first meeting with you might just not know how to treat a woman.
2. He should offer to take you out
If he really has an interest in you, then he must find time to be with you. While he is with you, he must endeavour to show you how much of a gentleman he is. Do he know how best to treat a woman? Is he acting as if he does not know this is a pretty good chance for him to create that very first impression? He should enquire to know more about you. Also do not let him leave without more about him, his family background, what he does for a living and all that stuff. As a matter of fact, yours is supposed to come first before his. Do more of the listening than the talking.
3. He should be making his intentions known now
A man who has the intentions of proposing to you is likely to do that within this period. After you men have hanged out two or three times, it’s high time he moved into the second stage of his mission. There is no special place meant for men to propose to a woman. All he need to do is take you to a very quiet place; a place where only the birds of the sky will be his witness. All he should do is verbally let you know his true feeling towards you looking into your eyes. If he is really in love with you, he is sure to give you all the time in the world to think about it.
4. Let him prove it
If there is one thing you should be doing right now, it is ascertaining the sincerity in the sweet promises he made to you before or after proposing to you. Now is the right time for him to prove his love to you. He might begin to call you more regularly in anticipation for an answer which he would hope will be positive but if he knows what you should be bothered about right now, he would ensure he plays his cards well at this decisive point.
A real man does not come into a woman’s heart through the back door. The task of breaking into a woman’s heart is a test of bravery and confidence which every man must pass to get a real woman. These two qualities you need in your man.
One of the special day in everybody's life is their birthday. Though, it is celebrated once every year, people don't normally put their birthday on a low profile. It is a time you know people who love you because they will give you lots of gifts. If you really love your boyfriend, you will try to make him happy during this day. If you are worrying about how to the day memorable for him, you are not alone. You don't have to worry yourself so much about it. There are different ways of making him have a memorable birthday celebration. Here are some of the things you should do to give your boyfriend a memorable birthday celebration.
Prepare his favorite meal
If you guy is the type that likes eating then you should consider preparing his favorite meals for him. You know your boyfriend very well and so you should know what his favorite dishes are. If you are just starting a relationship with him, then you have to take time to find out what his favorite dishes are. Take time to prepare a delicious dish for him. A lot of men are very happy when the woman they love cook for them during their birthday celebration. But if you want to them to fall for you then you should prepare their favorite dishes for them. It is said that men are easily touched emotionally through their tummy. If you are able to satisfy them emotionally, you have won their heart.
Prepare his favorite dessert for him
There is no doubt that the first thing that will come to your mind when the birthday of your boyfriend is approaching is to prepare a birthday cake for him. Birthday is good but it is common. If you want to do uncommon thing, you should consider preparing his favorite dessert. Find out what his favorites desserts and then take time to prepare it for him. However, you should not forget to add burning candle to it to make it really look like birthday dessert.
Write him a love letter
Nowadays, people rarely write love letters. Few line text messages or emails have taken the place of letter writing. But one thing about letter writing is more emotional and elaborate than text message. This is because people take time to write letters. You can surprise your boyfriend during his forthcoming birthday celebration by touching his emotions through a love letter. Sit down and take time to compose a wonderful love letter for your boyfriend. In the letter let him know how his birthday becomes a blessing to you and how much you love him and how happy you are for him during his Birthday celebration.
Take him to an event
If there is any event to be hosted during his birthday celebration or during the week of his birthday, you should consider taking him to that event. Get a ticket for both of you and them present the ticket for him during his birthday. If the event does not fall on his birthday, you may buy small gift and then wrap it with the ticket. Believe me he will jump when he opens the wrap and sees the ticket especially if he has wanted to attend the event.
Organise a surprise birthday party for him
If you have the money or if you can foot the bill, then it is worth doing to organize a surprise birthday party for him. Normally, birthday parties are organized for children and adults celebrating a milestone such as 25 years of age, 50th or 75th birthday. But you can make your boyfriend to remember his childhood age by throwing a part for him. However, you have to ensure that it is properly organized. Send invites on time. If you want it to be a surprise party for your birthday, then you should let the guests to know so that they will not ask him or tell him.