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Choose a Wife: Tips

Choosing a wife is not the same thing as choosing a girlfriend. Your wife is a life partner and thus you have to be very careful if you are looking...


Choosing a wife is not the same thing as choosing a girlfriend. Your wife is a life partner and thus you have to be very careful if you are looking for a wife. Don't just marry any person you see if you don't want to have a broken marriage or rather if you don't want to be a divorcee. Given the availability of many women in the society today, it may be difficult to choose a suitable life partner but it is not impossible. Bear in mind that you can always find a suitable companion if you approach it with utmost careful. Here are some tips to apply in this regard.

Make a list of your habits and aspects that you don't want to change

There are certain attitudes, habits and aspect of your life that you will not like to change even when you are married. You have to list them out because you may have to discuss them with your wife to be later in marriage or during courtship.

List things you admire in women you have met

Probably, you have met some women in life even in your workplace. What aspects of their life do you like? Take time to think about each of them and then list things you admire about them separately.

List qualities you expect from your ideal

Before you think of getting married, you already have in your some idea of what the real partner should be. Do you like a woman that wear make-up? Do you want a house wife or working class lady? Do you prefer the partying type? Do you like your wife to be an excellent wife? Do you prefer an academician as wife? This is very important because when you met a woman, you have to look out for those qualities. If she has it or at least 70 percent of the qualities you want, then you have found your actual wife but if she does not have such qualities, you have to continue your search.

Get more information about her family background

Most people look beyond the ladies they are dealing to their families. Knowing the family background of the person woman you want to marry matters a lot. This is because certain traits as well as health conditions run in the family.  Madness for example is believed by some people to be inherited illness. This is why it is important for you to get more information about the person's family background. If there are traits in the person's family that you cannot cope with, even if the girl does not have the trait, it is in her genes and if you marry her, it has entered in your children's gene.

Check out for undesirable habit

During courtship or as you are relating with the girl, you should find out some undesirable habit. The essence is to discuss it with her so that she will change then. Your aim should not be just to find fault with the person. Remember, you cannot have a 100 percent positive qualities in a person. So, don't have high expectation otherwise you may end up not finding a wife.

Consider compatibility

It is advisable that you marry a woman whose lifestyle is compatible with yours. You may end up in divorce if you marry a woman whose lifestyle is not compatible with yours.  

Twelve Days Traditional Countdown of Christmas: How to Make It Memorable


Few days from now, the Christmas day which is the long awaited day will be here with us. Some has already started on time to mark the twelve days traditional countdown of Christmas. If you did not start on time, you will find these ideas helpful. Good a thing, Christmas is feast that is celebrated once every year and so you can still make great use of the tips given below on yearly basis during every christmas celebration. Here are some tips to make it great and memorable for your partner.


First day of Christmas

You should purchase a box of cereal which your spouse likes very much and then lace it with impressive prizes. Include in the package a lot of edibles that children normally like in order to bring out the child in them.


Second day

If you have engraved toasting glasses, this is the day to bring them out from your China cabinet and then use it to sip some wine with your partner to recall the first day you ever use it to sip.


Third day

Take the three meals together with your partner. To make it more interesting and romantic, the breakfast can be in bed, you can dine out during launch and then have candlelit dinner.


Fourth day

Drive around the city with your spouse. It is a perfect day for sight seeing around the town and the city.


Fifth day

Show how you are missing your spouse on this day. Just send a scanned copy of your hand to your love when she or he is at work with a message that you can't wait to hold the real thing.


sixth day

This another day to buy her some gift but rather than buying any other items, you can buy her favorite flowers and present to her. If you are good in making live flower collection, you can collect nice ones for her.


Seventh day

This is a day to be together with your creator in thanksgiving for keeping you from January till December.


Eight day

This is be a perfect day for practicing some artwork. Just buy some painting materials or crayon and try it with your spouse. You can also prepare a collection of your photos.


Ninth day

A day like that is a perfect day to recall sweet memories of your past lives. You can look at your childhood photos, engagement photos, schooldays photos and the likes.


Tenth day

There is nothing so romantic than taking time to massage each others' shoulders for ten minutes.


Eleventh day

Try out some workout regime together. You should make it fun and romantic. It may be just walking together across the street or run around in your neighborhood. You can also turn it into play around the house.


Twelfth day

This is a great day for dining and wining together. The table should be rich with assorted dishes and drinks.


The above are romantic ways to spend the twelve days traditional count down of Christmas.