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Why You Should Marry Your Best Friend

Marriage is a lifelong relationship that gives many people serious concern when they realize that their lives are now tied to their partners. Can I...

 

Marriage is a lifelong relationship that gives many people serious concern when they realize that their lives are now tied to their partners. Can I cope with him or her? Can my partner be able to satisfy me always and if not, will I be able to manage him or her for the rest of my life? These are some of the questions that will come up in your mind. The solution to these problems as experience has shown is getting married to your best friend. Here are some of the reasons why you should marry your best friend.

You know each other very well

One of the reasons why many marriages do not last is because couples do not know each other very. They start learning each other after marriage. This learning process may not be completed before the marriage breaks up. But if you marry your best friend, you will begin to learn the person's likes and dislikes, temperature idiosyncrasies and manner of behavior. So, no hidden surprises and disappointments that are normally the bane of many marriages.

You live authentic life

If you marry your best friend, there is no room again for pretense. Since your spouse has known you and your weak points and yet he or she still decided to marry, you don't have to be afraid living yourself. You will be accommodated as a friend and your best friend will look beyond your imperfections to your good aspects. In other word, marrying your best will lead to openness in marriage. You can discuss anything you want.

Marrying your best friend means living with a partner in crime for life

Before getting married to your best friend, probably, you might have done various crazy and mischievous things with the person. It will be indeed hilarious to share memories of these life together as partner in crime.

Living together becomes fun

Best friends like spending their time together. They are not bored because they move along. So, if you marry your best friend, you will not experience the boredom that some people experience at a particular time in their married life. You will always miss your partner even for a few hours that he or she is not around.

You will enjoy unconditional love

As mentioned above, your best friend has always known your and weak points before deciding to marry you. This means that you are loved no matter what. Definitely, you will have it rosy every time but as best friends, reconciliation will be easier. Sometimes, it will be only a matter of seconds and you people will move on again because there is unconditional love. Wrongs are easily forgiven and overlooked.

Less probability of infidelity

Couples that are best friends hardly have the problem of infidelity in their marriage. One of the causes of infidelity in marriage is because people male wrong choices and do not marry their best friends. If you marry your best friends, your emotion will like be for him or her always.

You will grow old together

The best thing that will happen to you is to grow old together with your best friend. Though, you may not be of the same age but the gap will not be much and so, you will grow old together and wash your children grow. 

The above are some of the reasons why you should marry your best friend.

 

 

 

The Reason Why men Are Left by Women

 

Statistics have shown that women file for divorce more than men. Many people may not know the reason why most of the divorce cases in court are filed by women. The reason for this is how women react to marital issues. Women normally file for divorce when they are not happy in marriage. Though some of them may try to endure some difficulties in marriages while a good number of them are not able to cope with marriage issues and thus they prefer to break up and look for a better alternative. But these divorces cases reveal the common reasons why women file for divorce or leave their husbands more than men do. Here are some of the reasons why women leave their husbands.

Mental cruelty

One of the reasons why women leave their husbands is as a result of mental cruelty. They are emotionally not balanced because they are emotionally abused. You may think that they reason why they are emotionally abused or disturbed is because of their husband's inability to turn them around or drive them crazy. It is simply because their husband are not available when they need them. Their husbands are indifferent to them. They did not pay attention to them and neglect them. Their relationship lacks communication. If you are not available for your women or if your relationship lacks communication, you should prepare to lose your woman. Make sure that you are always available to your woman so that she will not be feel emotionally abused.

Neglect

Neglect is another reason why women leave their husbands or file for divorce. Neglect here is different from lack of availability. It is much more than lack of availability. It is complete physical and emotional estrangement. Neglecting your wife completely as described above means that you are making your wife to be totally a single woman. She is living as an unmarried woman. Men who are working far from home are normally guilt of this problem. If the nature of your work requires that you stay away from home for weeks or months, you should make effort communicate with your wife. Maintaining contact with her via the phone. 

Infidelity, alcohol and drug abuse, fraud and other criminal behavior 

Unwanted and criminal behavior such as infidelity, fraud, drug abuse and the likes are other reasons why women divorce their husbands. But these behaviors do not normally result in divorce or marriage. The major reason why women leave their husband are reasons relating to neglect.