It is the dream of every young lady to marry a man that she loves and that will also love her in return. Any lady going to into a marriage with a m...
It is the dream of every young lady to marry a man that she loves and that will also love her in return. Any lady going to into a marriage with a man that loves her and that she loves will always want to have a happy and lasting marriage with the man. However, many ladies ended up not realizing this dream. Poor relationship is the major cause of broken broken. A lot of broken marriages would have been saved if the couple know how to relate with each other. You are different from your husband but you have manage the differences very well in such a way that it will not cause you people any problem in the future. Here are some of the acceptable ways to related with your husband.
Don't nag your husband
There is no doubt that your husband will get on your nerve many times throughout your marital relationship with him. He may give you many reasons to nag him. But do not nag him. Nagging has never solve any problem in marriage. Instead, it brings broken marriage. There are acceptable means of resolving issues or solving a problem in your marriage. Rather than nagging, you can dialogue with him face-to-face. Let him know see reasons with you or why he should not do the thing you are complaining against. If you nag him, you are hurting him and be ready to face his wrath. Nagging can result in domestic violence and this is why you should avoid it.
Don't embarrass your husband in the public
Again, there be reasons for you to be so annoyed with your husband in the public to extent of talking to him anyhow or embarrassing him. But overlook those reason and avoid embarrassing him in the public. Learn to cover your husband's weak points in the public. If you want to remonstrate him, do that at home or when you are in private with him. Another way of insulting a man in the public is by putting up shameful behavior in the public. For example, imagine attending a party with your husband and getting drunk in the public in the presence of your husband. He will definitely be embarrassed with such a behavior.
Don't give up cheering your man
There is no perfect husband or any husband that is beyond failure or mistakes. So, don't expect your husband to be a perfect husband. He may not meet your expectation in many ways including in his jobs but you have to keep cheering him and encouraging him. Cheering and encouraging him will help him to keep trying and overcoming his imperfection. But if you stop cheering him, you are discouraging him and that will amount to killing his ego.
Don't deny your husband sex or take it lightly
Man is a sexual being. Some men are sexually active that they cannot do without. If you want to have a rewarding and lasting relationship, you should not refrain from giving your body to your husband. As you give him food, also give him your body anytime he wants it. If you are not in the mood or too weak for that, you should explain to him with polite voice.
Don't fail to show concern to his business
It is important that you show concern always to the business of your husband. Business here means his dream or whatever his is doing. Most men like marrying women that will ignite their vision and bring it to fruition. You should therefore have knowledge of what your husband is doing and be able to advice him. Besides, you can only appreciate his effort if you know what he is doing.
Don't love your children more than your husband
Your husband is your first child and so you should show him love as well as your children. There is the tendency for women to develop love to their children more than to their husband especially as they advance in age. But this should not be the case. You should not in anyway show your husband signs that you love your children more than him.