Though the word LOVE- is universal but it is so rare in this world that most of the people spend their whole life searching for the true meaning of this word. “Does look matter in love?”-is a common question that goes though our mind whenever we are talking about love. This is a much debatable question and its answer varies from people to people. Some say that love is a mental status; some say it is an emotion above all or just an illusion (!!!). So, look really does not matter in love but there are some who say the contrary. So, what does matter in love? When do people fall in love? How, why do people fall in love? Is there any requirement for love? These are some common questions that go through minds of many people especially the youth. This article is for those people who are on the search of the question-Does look matter in love?

From my personal experience what I have seen is that those who are in a happy relationship are continuing with the relationship because

·        Their partners make them happy

·        Their choices and personality matches

·        They have good understanding between each other.

So, it can be said from my personal experience that in matter of love looks and figure really do not play a vital role but then you can ask that why people talk about it so much? Well, those who are looking for looks in a person are not actually looking for love. At least I think so. Because you can never judge a person from his/her look. Look is something that a person inherits but character and personality are the things that the person builds him/herself.  So, what should matter in love? Looks? Which is not in the control of the person or character? Which makes the person who he/she really is? Now, you answer this!

Though I do not believe that look should matter in love but I do believe that it helps to make that first step in a relationship because a person tends to make the initial approach if only he/she is attracted to or interested in someone. So, in the first step of any relationship look can play a role but that does not mean look matters in love because when a person falls in love, that person should love everything about the other person. If looks is the main reason for your falling in love with another person then believe me, you are not in love! Also in my personal life I have met many people who experienced bad relationships and looks didn’t have anything to do with it. They said that it was their different perspectives towards life and point of views that resulted in break up. So, you see to make a relationship work it should be the attitudes of 2 people that must complement each other.

Now it can come to your mind that if beauty is really in the eyes of the beholder then why the cosmetics industry is booming and more people are joining gyms every year in our country? Why girls are treated differently for their beauty but not for their intelligence in our country? Should there be any requirements for falling in love? These questions are for you to answer but from my stand point I can say that looks absolutely make a difference for that initial connection but looks certainly aren't everything. When a person falls in love with another; he/she falls in love with the "inner you" that shines through if you are happy, confident, and fun to be around. Be confident, stay positive about life, have fun and most of all be yourself and a true lover will always love you no matter what/who you are.

In the end what can be said is that if you are looking for love; do not worry about your looks. Yes, it would help you to attract another person if you keep yourself fit and fabulous but if you are looking for “The One” then you should not worry about how you look. Love comes from within and it happens when it is meant to happen. It can not be forced on someone and also it can not happen only for having good looks. So definitely the answer to the question of “Does look matter in love?” is “NO” for sure.  Be true about who you are and you will find your love one day and then you can also answer like me if anyone asks-does look matter in love?

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