Yes, we are back in kinder garden when all things used to be so darn complicated. You had to eat the broccoli momma packed for you, listen to what the teacher instructed you to do and figure out all by yourself if that certain girl liked you, just by clues she left behind and mixed signals she sometimes used to send your way. But a question still saturates the air: does she like me?

As adults, we are not so different from what we were in our childhood years and not even our means of expressing emotions (basic emotions such as like or dislike) haven’t evolved as much as we would secretly care to believe. To find out how much we’ve stayed the same, here are 8 clues she does indeed likes you (in the sense that she fancies you and would like to sleep with you, not in the sense that she wants to stay the best of friends forever).

1.      She teases you a lot. This one is from the kinder garden age. We used to do this when we were 5 and we’re still doing it. In fact, teasing is one of the most powerful female mechanisms ever invented. Tease a guy about his tie or his political views and he’ll know the essential – you want him.

2.      She asks for your help on any frivolous issue. She needs a piece of furniture to be moved or IT assistance, who is she going to call? You, because you are reliable but you are also and interesting possibility in her book. A possibility that needs to be explored how far it will go. So, does she like me? Yes! Do what she asks for: open her flask of juice and save her kitty from a tree and soon you might get rewarded.

3.      She looks at you all the time, except when you talk about relationships. You are good friends and you talk about everything openly, without scruples. Or do you? When it comes to talking about romance and intimacy she blushes and can’t look at you. That’s a sign that she likes you even though she’s a little shy to admit it and that she is probably fantasizing about you.

4.      Picks unnecessary fights. You try to do anything in your power to please her, but nothing gives. She is constantly dissatisfied with everything you do. The significance of every tiny detail is exaggerated to extremes in your fights. She is merciless and fights passionately, but she never goes overboard. If when you are ruthlessly fighting she occasionally smiles as she found your last ironic remark to delicious not to savor it, then she really does like you.  

5.      Casual, apparently friendly touching. It won’t be something flashy, something out of the ordinary. She might touch your wrist or your shoulder, pat your back or fix your hair, the most important common denominator of all these is that the action won’t seem premeditated, but the gentleness and the duration of it will make you feel too good, even a bit spoiled. This surely is the touch of a girl who likes you so have no more doubts about it. It might even be a sign of her wanting a more serious relationship, one that lasts for a longer period of time.

6.      Mentions a favorite café or restaurant ever so lightly in the hope that perhaps you’ll meet there or that you’ll gather the courage to finally ask her out. Of course most girls wouldn’t dream of actually asking the guy they liked to go out with them, so they’re going to leave it like a hint, a silent question mark at the end of a sentence. But in case you haven’t got it, this is a yes to “does she like me?”.

7.      She remembers. If she knows things you only talked about once and they didn’t carry so much importance then, she either has a spectacular memory or she takes particular notice to anything which is connected to you which is a wonderful complement and a sure sign she is definitely into you. So, if she remembered your favorite football team or basketball team and made an effort to find out how their season went, that means she really likes you.

8.      Acquiring similar tastes. If she is willing to expand her horizon and learn about your all time favorite books, favorite bands you like to see perform live and favorite film makers, it is not simple curiosity. She wants to get closer, but she needs some familiar turf. So getting familiar with what you like is a manifestation of an unconscious desire to know you better and get cozy with you.

So if the girl you fancy exhibits one or more of these precocious signs of infatuation, feel encouraged to ask her out. And the reality is that we are not little children anymore even if we do sometimes still behave like them, so man up, stop asking yourself “does she like me?” and ask her out before she picks a crush on somebody else.

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