Dumping A Loser - Right Or Wrong?

Dumping A Loser – Right Or Wrong?

You cannot always win but what is required is a right mindset. Our life is full of ups and downs either for our own self or of people related to us. Dumping a Loser is one of such topic that can be looked holistically from different angles. Yes, it can be a right thing to do but at same time it can be wrong too when looked from different perspective. In this article we would look at different scenario that concerns dumping a loser and situations when it is a right or a wrong practice. The words “Dumping A Loser” might bring you mixed or extreme feelings but truth is that it is very much part of our lives.

The practice of dumping a loser normally happens when we no longer wants to be associated with the loser. It happens that we have lost all hope and believe that there is a no chance that a loser would turn into a winner. We might have invested lot of our resources but truth remains that more investment has become detrimental for us too. Considering this, the question that then comes into picture is that whether dumping a loser is a right or wrong practice. Let’s look at more deeply and see when it is right or wrong practice

Who is a loser?

1) Once who have lost or in the process of losing everything

2) One who has developed a habit of losing

3) One who is deep into losing and have no hope left

But does it mean that you dump them

1) Not at all if they are loved ones

2) Not at all if they are willing to win

3) Maybe Yes, if they have no hope left

So, if they are your loved one

1) They are already part of your life

2) Helping them needs an investment that you should be willing to make

3) It’s a phase that comes in everyone life and you need to be there

Dumping A Loser is wrong here

So, If they are willing to win.

1) You friends who need help

2) Who keeps positive attitude and is passing through bad phase

3) You know they have it in them.

Dumping a Loser is again wrong here

Losing is not bad till the time it gets into our head and we don’t learn from it.

But on other side Dumping a Loser is- MayBe Yes, if they have no hope left

1) There are people who have developed deep habit of losing

2) No matter how much you help they would always let you down

3) You have started to suffer just because of their attitude and habits

Dumping a Loser is very much right here mainly because

1) They need to learn on their own

2) They need to realize their worth on their own

3) They need to see the world with their own eyes.

Yes, it happens that a Loser is not getting the perspective that they should have in their lives. They may not see it till the point someone is doing their handholding. So it is ok to dump a loser with right intentions to help them learn where they are wrong and what is missing in their lives.

Leave apart people, it is normal and respected practice to dump a loser

1) In stocks to avoid further loss

2) In habits to avoid further loss in self image

3) In attitude to be a winner in life.

It is your choice. A Loser habit can’t go ahead with you in your life just because individually you need peace and success in life.

Dumping a Loser is not a bad practice if it is pulling you down. Otherwise you have choices.

There is no harm to be practical in life and live above your emotions. There is a point to which each one of us can tolerate things in our life and beyond that it should be a matter of priorities. Sacrificing to a limit is advisable but beyond that you need to put a check. Dumping a loser for their benefit is always right and so is for your benefit too. See for the hope and if there is none you need to think hard again. It’s your choice after all this is your life.

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