Love is divine. Often people say, true love comes only once in a lifetime. Falling in love is the most wonderful experience of someone’s life. Although the way of experiencing love vary from person to person but the real essence of true love is same for all. Love exists in many forms but for us, in our life, there are always some forms that are very interesting and have the ability to get our life into a roller coaster ride.

There are three stages before one falls in love as it relates to human relationship.

Ø  The first is the infatuation stage, more common amongst adolescents, and is based on the weak foundations of physical attraction that do not last for much time. It wanes as time passes by and can come to an end, as if nothing has happened, unless it passes into the bonding stage.

Ø  Bonding occurs after one becomes familiar with the other. During this stage the lovers actually plan things together for their future. It can mean sharing intimate moments, exchanging views about each other and their families. The bonding is complete only when the lovers have established a common goal that they can sustain. Failure to establish a bond means break up altogether and both go their way.

Ø  The final stage in falling in love is the intertwining of each other’s endeavor finally. It is also the stage at which you decide to cement your relationship into a sustainable marriage. Reaching the final stage does not insure against break up, and the many divorce applications are proof for that.

The reason for falling in love, although accepted as chemical changes involving the brain, are many. Some of the reasons and arguments are worthy of consideration while others are too bizarre to be acceptable on a scientific plane. It is therefore prudent that you use your own judgments to know if there is true love in a particular situation if that subject interests you so much. Here are some circumstances and situations you may consider against your own theories about falling in loving.

·        Motivations are strong reasons for falling in love. The human mind is always in a state of preparedness to expand the self and its abilities, and tries to seek out similarly motivated individuals both in physical and mental states. Such union of interest if reciprocated usually results in love for each other.

·        Highly arousing situations can form the basis for falling in love. A tragedy in mid sea, political turbulence etc cetera is good reasons for falling in love if the other person too is affected similarly. Having shared a common emotion in very trying situations actually motivates individuals to fall in love even if it means making sacrifices.

·        Attraction, not just on physical appearances, has a profound effect for falling in love. Kindness and brilliancy too fall in this category and usually has sound foundations for falling in love. Physical attraction is usually spontaneous, but kindness and brilliance are recognized only over a period of time, and is usually the stronger reason for falling in love and can be long lasting.

Conveying love and affection is an art that not everyone is adept at. It takes sincerity and understanding of the other person’s needs and objectives. Selfish expression of love often ends in rejection and has traumatic effect on the victim. So ensure that you have been through the first two stages of love before you express your love for someone, especially if it is romantic. Here are some tips that you can adapt to your own situation and ponder over it before you take the final plunge.

§  Express love sincerely and avoid talking about mutual benefits, even though that may be the reason why you fell in love. It is some secret you need to keep it to yourself. You are not a merchant here; it is relationship it has to be selfless.

§  Be prepared for rejection; after there is little guarantee against falling in love with someone else latter. Time heals even the worst injury. Simply give time a try and you will emerge stronger than ever before.

§  Letters for conveying love are poor cousins of personal expressions, unless you are doing it from a distance. Tell the other about your intention and ask for a reply, either way.

§  Do not force for a reply even if you are eager enough to hear instantly. When you have taken the liberty for expressing your love you must have though it over many times.

Falling in love is a great emotion that not everyone can experience, and when it does happen to you, do not let it go without giving it a try! Try to make your love story a successful one and see how wonderful life can be!

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