Are you looking for a new love? If yes you are not alone in the search. Love is the most abundantly scarce natural commodity ever existed on the face of the earth. It is so easy to give love and yet so difficult to feel it. If there was love, there will be no hatred, wars, betrayal, heartbreak, divorce, murder, and many other hate crimes available on earth – a perfect reason why you are on the quest of finding new love. It is very difficult to find love in this very hard cold world where hatred reigns supreme, a world where many similitude of love reigns over and above the genuine love emotions, making it difficult to identify the real genuine love. This is the time and era where sex is linked with real love, love for materialism is adopted to coat the expression of love, in fact generally speaking, mans love for others have waxed very cold and worthless. So in lieu of finding new love, the issue should be what love is, does humans really have the capacity to show love?

Love overview

Love is a language more than a word, because it expresses many feelings and emotions: patience, humility, honesty, kindness, gentleness, forgiving spirit, tolerance, and many others as spelt out in the bible. What is obtainable today are just segments of the above traits, the way of the society: wealth accumulation, survival of the fittest, greed, love for materialism, inventions and many other earthly things have made love a mirage. Girls will rather marry a rich guy than a poor one, men and women cheating on their dates for no known reasons, Father killing mother, mother killing father, brother against brother; sisters, country warring against the other, blood shed, betrayal, deception, increase in divorce cases, in-tolerance amongst people; races, culture, religion, deception, murder, and many other vices points to one very painful fact, love is indeed lost in this generation, a generation where finding new love is as difficult as trying to break the wall with the head. So what is the solution?

Can real love be found?

The quest of finding new love in an environment where love seems absolutely impossible is not an easy one. It is like trying to find water in a desert and you know how difficult that can get. But as it is not impossible to find the water in the dessert likewise it is not impossible to find new love in this hate thorn world, what it simply takes is know where to look and how to look for it.

Finding new love is possible- If you are looking on finding a new love, then it is possible, below are some of the steps that should help you.

1.                  You! Need to find a new love that really loves you for you? Then start where you are, you! What really do you know about love? A lot of people may boast to know so much about love, but if the increasing turbulence in relationships and marriages divorces is anything to go by, then it is very clear that people’s general knowledge about love is non existence. Number one tip of finding new love is to know how to love, or have the capacity to love. To whom much is given much is expected. If your desire is to get a good love, then you have a responsibility to offer the same thing you are looking for. If it is quality love, then have one to offer someone. So work on yourself, and remember, do unto others what you want others to do unto you.

2.                  Another finding love secret is location. Where you meet that person that will make your life turn round and round matters. If you want a quiet shy guy, someone that love to spend time with you more than hanging out with friends, a disco hall, club, party, bar, etc is not a likely place to look.

3.                  Another tip to finding new love is to pray. What has prayer got to do with finding a new love? Everything! And more! The list anyone can do about this issue is to be ready, have all it takes etc, but what really bring this dream guy or girl your way, is God. He knows all heart, he searches the deepest heart of man, and above all, see tomorrow from today and been an omnipotent, and omniscience God, He is qualified to play a role of matchmaker. Remember that the God found Eve for Adam, he will do the same for you, if you as him.

Finding new love is a conscious effort. One has to work towards it and not hope to stumble on it. Look good, be spiritually, and physically balanced and above all depend on God for it and you will surely get it.

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