Comments on: How To Deal With Difficult People http://www.mysticmadness.com/how-to-deal-with-difficult-people.html Think Different. Rock Life Fri, 30 Dec 2011 00:13:42 +0000 hourly 1 By: Andrii Demianenko http://www.mysticmadness.com/how-to-deal-with-difficult-people.html/comment-page-1#comment-1554 Andrii Demianenko Sat, 31 Oct 2009 18:19:57 +0000 http://www.mysticmadness.com/?p=1264#comment-1554 <!--Session data-->I would recommend learning the "Conversational Hypnosis". You can check it out on the Internet. I would recommend learning the "Conversational Hypnosis". You can check it out on the Internet.

]]> By: Amit http://www.mysticmadness.com/how-to-deal-with-difficult-people.html/comment-page-1#comment-1528 Amit Mon, 26 Oct 2009 19:09:53 +0000 http://www.mysticmadness.com/?p=1264#comment-1528 Thanks AJ, I have modified my post a bit- --> Yes, Get Your Destiny in Your Own Hands and Lookout for the Change Change for Better, Change for Growth In example above 1) You change your travel route, now fire your boss 2) You change your brand, look for better customers 3) You buy different car, now change the people who bothers you. Small Example- In 2002 I was much happy with my job but suddenly new Boss made my life living hell. I tried everything but my Boss had deep rooted weird habit to humiliate and harass people. That prompted me to come out from comfort zone and look for better opportunities. I worked hard for change and got excellent opportunity. I was quick to realize where to invest time and how to avoid spoiling it.<---- What I essentially mean is to get your destiny in your own hands and go for a change. Use such events as trigger points. Dont take crap from people, avoid them just like you avoid bad things in life. Dont waste time mending them, your time is too precious. Infact history proves that problems prompt right solutions. If the person is a spouse then I understand this solution might not work but then relatioships is a different field alltogether. Thanks AJ, I have modified my post a bit-

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Yes, Get Your Destiny in Your Own Hands and Lookout for the Change
Change for Better, Change for Growth
In example above
1) You change your travel route, now fire your boss
2) You change your brand, look for better customers
3) You buy different car, now change the people who bothers you.

Small Example- In 2002 I was much happy with my job but suddenly new Boss made my life living hell. I tried everything but my Boss had deep rooted weird habit to humiliate and harass people. That prompted me to come out from comfort zone and look for better opportunities. I worked hard for change and got excellent opportunity. I was quick to realize where to invest time and how to avoid spoiling it.<—-

What I essentially mean is to get your destiny in your own hands and go for a change. Use such events as trigger points. Dont take crap from people, avoid them just like you avoid bad things in life. Dont waste time mending them, your time is too precious. Infact history proves that problems prompt right solutions.

If the person is a spouse then I understand this solution might not work but then relatioships is a different field alltogether.

]]> By: AJ http://www.mysticmadness.com/how-to-deal-with-difficult-people.html/comment-page-1#comment-1527 AJ Mon, 26 Oct 2009 16:34:49 +0000 http://www.mysticmadness.com/?p=1264#comment-1527 I like the way you have presented the Analysis and the Result for the same. I also like the way you have presented the Solution with the 3 samples in mind. But it's the last para (CHANGE), where I felt a bit confused. When you say Get your Destiny in hands and don't quit, get smart. I am not sure what exactly it means. So, for instance dealing with a difficult boss or friend or spouse, are you saying get smart with them? If that's the case, how do you suggest to start with them. Ignore everything they say and continue doing what you want to? Thanx AJ I like the way you have presented the Analysis and the Result for the same.

I also like the way you have presented the Solution with the 3 samples in mind.

But it’s the last para (CHANGE), where I felt a bit confused. When you say Get your Destiny in hands and don’t quit, get smart. I am not sure what exactly it means.

So, for instance dealing with a difficult boss or friend or spouse, are you saying get smart with them? If that’s the case, how do you suggest to start with them. Ignore everything they say and continue doing what you want to?

Thanx
AJ

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