How To Make Small Talk With Your Big Boss


Opportunity knocks at the door once and have chance to make small talk with your big boss can be that one opportunity you were looking for. If you can make an impression it will pay you for the upcoming days for sure. It will help you to get the exposure or sharing your ideas about some issues with your boss. How to make small talk with the bog boss is often bewilder even the most experienced managers.  The word small become very important and relative when it gets attached with the “talk” you are going to have with someone who has authority over you, may be your boss or the company’s CEO. May be it is called small talk but the influence can be far beyond the small range!

 

As I have mentioned you can consider the small talk as a window of opportunity but it is loaded with peril at the same time. What if I say something wrong, what if I behaved in a wrong way and many more “what ifs” make the scenario a peril one beforehand. Even if it is a small talk- take your preparation to express yourself properly and effectively. Taking preparation would be easier if you know the exact time of your meeting with the big boss. It can be an official visit to your department, or can be all employees get together party. So here are some tips on- how to make small talk with your big boss:

 

·        Take your preparation: If you are a new employee then try to learn about the current position of the company both strategically and practically. Have look on the current ongoing projects. Ideally all of the employees should have an idea of company’s yearly strategy. If you think you do not know about it in detail, and then make sure you know the as well. Take a preparation on what you are going to say to you CEO or the respective big boss if you got a chance to talk to him/her in person. Try to include some key massages about the current project you are working on, about your career with this company and a little bit about yourself. In case of an official social party where you may get more time for the talk, you can do some research on your boss’s interests and hobbies to carry on the conversation to a more comfortable level.

·        Try to be yourself: you can make a very positive impression if you know how to be yourself and relaxed while meeting a tycoon. So when you get introduced to him/her make an eye contact, shake hands in relaxed manner, smile a little and act tranquil. If he asks you anything tries to answer it to the point and if relevant ask him something on reply. Remember, you confidence and attitude are the things that are going to make your presence impressive. So use the best of it.

·        Go with the situation: Do not continue the conversation unless your boss shows interest. The length of the conversation is not important here, the impression you are making by using your sense of decorum is important. So you need to read the situation while you are having the small talk with your boss. Just thank your boss and wish him with a good bye greeting would be a smart decision if he is just in a Hi- Hello mood. If he shows interest talking to you further, then you can convey the messages prepared earlier. It is important to know when to stop especially in your professional life and while dealing with the sensitive people as you boss and these skills come up with the skill of reading the situation. Try to read the situation and go with it.

 

So far I have talked about the situations of professional gatherings. What if you meet your boss in the airport or in a social event or may be in the stadium watching the same sports? Well, you do not have to be worried about such encounters as there is nothing exceptional about the preparation part on the case of these impromptu meetings.  Go and get yourself introduce in case he does not recognize you, have a small courtesy talk, and depending on the situation you can continue the talk or can say good bye.

 

In the conclusion it can be said that “how to make small talk with your big boss” can be within your comfort zone if you prepare yourself time-to-time. Practicing the key massages will give you confidence and you will feel that on the day you will meet your big boss. 



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