How To Make Someone Happy

How to make someone happy? I am glad that you asked this question. This shows that you are in the mood to make things right in the relationships. For me, everyday is a battle. I wake up everyday to hope for a better life. Instead I find myself figuratively hanging on the wall with my wife bombarding millions of complains that I try to dodge in vain. Make no mistake my reader, I love my wife and she is the reason I live. And I love my job too but when I reach my office, I know for sure that the first visit I have to make is to my demon boss who is ready to suck the last drop of blood of my drying veins. My boss is almost a role model to me.

With little social life that I am allowed after a twelve hour job at work and twenty four hour job at home, I spend time wooing my friends and relatives for so little time I spend with them. It seems stupid that I try this hard, but I feel blessed by God to have this life (and I know you do too). These people I call family and friends; they make my world. So, I tell you some secrets of how I handle this pressure with ease and make them happy.

Secret 1: Complement them.

Words can start a war and words can bring an end to it. Be aware of what your relatives and friends do. May be they bought a new purse or a new pair of trousers. Don’t miss these tiny things. Complement them. They must have had something tiny for you. Appreciate it. Make them believe that they are marvelous people. The more good they feel about themselves, the more beneficial they would be to you.

Secret 2: Gifts.

Of course your wife has a thousand pair of clothes, jewellery and accessories; but she would still love if you brought her something. It need not be expensive. But, it should be innovative and should have the element of surprise. Your boss may not appreciate the surprise element, but he has defined some expectations from your work. Rising up to his expectations would be the gift you give to your boss.

Secret 3: Add humor to Taste.

If you can lighten the mood in the room, things would change better. The more people laugh with you, the more they loose their negativity. They would start loving you. Everybody face the problems in their lives and everyone searches for a distraction. If you cannot be a funny person, you can always have an interesting personality. People would appreciate if you intermingle with them. It will make them happy.

Secret 4: Listen to what they say. Befriend them.

A very simple reason why you must have faced your boss’s frowning face or your sisters taunt is the problems they had faced in that morning. When you know it’s not your fault and the person is sad, it is the time to befriend them. Listen to what they are facing. Indulge in talk with them. The more personal they get the better for you. Who knows your boss may find a solution with you. And you might find some totally new personality of your wife that would make you love her even more. If they find a comfort zone in you and if they are able to open up to you, you would definitely become the king of your world. So, befriend them because they need you. This is the way you can make someone happy.

Secret 5: Share some moments of your life.

To chase a mysterious personality feels good and exciting in the start but soon people want to have a certainty of who you are. So, once you are in a relation (personal or professional), talk about some things that are happening in your life. People feel to be a part of you and your life when they know some tiny things about you. Here you have to be cautious of two things – first, do not talk too much or you might end up being a laughter stock of the public (like Ms. Britney Spears). Second, do not give opinions or comments that may slap you in the face later on. This is very important especially in the office life. Try not to back bitch about others.

There are infinite numbers of game plans and strategies that can be used to make others happy. But, there is one important aspect to be. It is the biggest thing. You should be happy with your life. If doing all this comes as a burden to you, don’t do it.

All the effort should be aimed at increasing the positivity in the people including you. So, if you want to watch a football match during dinner, do it. I reach office late almost everyday. But, I am still aware of my responsibilities and I fulfill them to my best and get the best. “How to make someone happy?” this is not a tricky question and you know the answer to it.

Post By Khushboo Sheth

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