Remember those romantic comedies where the protagonist expresses one dire wish, for the fairy godmother to make a certain person love them and the fairy explains that it is the only thing she cannot possibly offer? Well, fairies have a very limited imagination. It goes without saying that you cannot force somebody into loving you, but certainly you can do and say a number of things to encourage affection.

So how do you make someone love you? You don’t put a spell on that person, there’s no magical fixing, but there are several honest methods. You should by all means make your intentions clear, don’t pretend you want to be just friends and if you are dating the person you’re in love with, don’t play any relationship games, but make it clear to them that your intentions are serious all the way through.

1. Show your lively interest upfront. You have nothing to prove, but keep it clear: for you, this person is very special so dig up some personal information about them. Find out where they like to hang out, what they enjoy doing, their favorite food and drink, their future aspirations, everything that matters. The little things and the big things. If you’re dating, you can find them out directly from the source, if not conduct your investigation through their close friends. Just pay attention so that you don’t glide into creepiness!

2. Use your fun practical skills. You may not be able to joggle or eat fire, but you surely can flip a pancake. If you don’t, then learn. It’s a very big well kept secret that people who can turn routine activities into entertaining ones, win the heart of their beloved. No matter what useful thing you know how to do, whether it’s fixing cocktails or fixing car engines, do it with a smile on your face. Make it look easy – it will show them that you can be confident while handy and joyous at the same time.

3. Be the reliable, stable element in their life. To make someone love you, you have to be the one person to whom they’ll always return, no matter what happens. And how do you achieve that? Be there for them, like a rock, like a trusty rescue vest. Pick them up from the airport, help them move their furniture, read their thesis and tell them what you really think. If you truly love someone, this will not seem like a stretch at all, it will just reveal more ways to see and please your sweetheart.

4. Don’t pressure them into anything. You’re in love, but your chosen person doesn’t express or isn’t quite sure about their emotions. You can try offering gifts, flowers or candy, greet them at their house with a string quartet wearing a romantic evening outfit or you can take the high road and act subtly and not make a huge deal out of it. To make someone love you, you’ve got to let them be at ease in the relationship, don’t be obvious about your high expectations. Remember that any relationship is fragile at first.

5. Be sexy. Admit it! You want a loyal and serious, career-oriented individual, but the spice factor always lingers. Sure enough that is also what your partner wants. But being sexy isn’t all about kinky underwear (everybody knows how to buy something like that), props and cream. It’s an attitude, the lightness of heart, good humor, always smiling naughtily, being playful and making sassy jokes. This attitude is a bulletproof way to make someone love you and maybe it will keep you both happily ever after.

6. Find the balance. In a fair mature relationship, you have to give and you have to take, it’s only natural. But be careful, to make someone love you and keep that someone loving you like crazy, you mustn’t wish to change all their habits and activities. On the contrary, you have to encourage your person to keep going to the theatre if that’s their thing and join them whenever it’s possible. Do the same for your stuff and you will find a harmonious lifestyle.

7. Invent your own couple rituals. Why Valentine’s Day and heart-shaped chocolates when you could go bird-watching or swim in the river under the moonlight? Any stupid idea is better than the clichés; find something specific that really defines you as a couple. That is precisely how you make someone love you – by becoming irreplaceable and making them realize you’re the only person they could howl at the moon with.

So here you’ve found a bunch of ways through which you can seduce somebody sincerely and make that someone love you like … a fool in love! I really hope it works and that you keep your someone for a really long time.

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