Is He The One


This is for all girls out there who have been dating that ‘someone’ and want to know is he the one. All of us at some point or the other must have read or heard about a special man who will come waltzing into our lives or the ‘prince charming’ thing. Spending a few dates does not certify him. This is because on such occasions where he is with you for a limited period of time, he will surely put his best foot forward. Besides, here are a few hints that can answer your is he the one question.

 

He remembers your dates

A man who is genuinely interested in you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you would surely want to be a part of your life. What better way than to remember all the important dates in your life can he adopted to impress you? These could be the anniversary of your parents, or your siblings’ birthday or the first time you got a car etc. We are not mentioning your own birthday because that is a date even casual friends tend to remember. But knowing ‘other’ dates means a person is close enough to you for you to share this intimate information with him. 2

Not in a hurry to establish intimacy

The man who is the answer to your ‘is he the one’ question would be in no hurry to get intimate with you. There is lots of time for him to become physically involved and share some intimacy with you. This is just the beginning of a beautiful relationship. A man who consider you as his might hold your hands or even occasionally give you a peck on your cheek but will never pressurize you to get physically intimate with you. Honorable men feel that this is something which eventually has to happen and will happen when the time is right.

You feel excited when you speak about him

When in a doubt about a man, ask yourself is he the one? Well, the answer to this question is very simple. Notice how you feel when you talk about him to your parents or people close to you. Do you feel nervous, shy or excited? People in love tend to approach the subject confidently but falter mid way. This is because you feel as if the whole world is waiting for you ‘to spill the beans’ and to confess your love for him in front of everyone. You would feel your heart thumping in your hands when you speak about him.

You plan your future with him

You start day dreaming about him and imagine him with you every moment of your life. This is the answer to your question is he the one. When you and he, discuss your future together without the other person prompting, you know that he is there for you. When you see him as your ‘man’ and see babies around or you see both of you attending social dos as a couple, you know for sure that he is you ‘prince charming’. So, what if the white horse is missing?

You are comfortable in his presence

A man with whom you want to spend the rest of your life should make you feel comfortable. You should be at ease to be yourself and not some decked up doll. The real you should be accepted and loved immensely by the man of your dreams. Putting your best foot forward all he time may not be possible and there are times when one will fall a little short of expectations. Your man should be there with you to take care of the situation and reassuringly put an arm around you. This gesture of saying ‘its ok and we all go through this’ speaks volumes about his feelings for you. This should clear the ‘is he the one’ doubts in your head.

 

Is he the one? Well, if the man for you will make you feel relaxed and calm inside; yes he is. You will feel as if with him by your side, you can probably conquer the whole world. When your man is not in town, you would feel as if there is noting else to do in life. You feel life is so miserable and boring.



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