From the beginning of the earth, people were made to travel in twos. And you've realized just now that you are feeling pretty lonely and blue and you've figured out why. You don't have a partner to share your joy and sorrows with, you don't have a special person whom you feel tied to and to whom you can tell even your most private feelings.

This kind of comunion and intimacy comes only with an amorous connection so my guess is that you are looking for relationship. Just that getting a girlfriend or a boyfriend is definitely not like buying a new house appliance. You don't just make a list of good features and another list with faults he or she shouldn't have and then take those lists and go shopping. People aren't just permutations of different personality and physical traits. So you should start working on your own person and then go out in society with new and improved social manners. Here are a few strategy tips:

1.      Groom yourself. Before you go out into the world looking for a relationship, you have to make sure you are the best version of yourself. Take care of your appearence, don't ever look sloppy or neglijent, wear discrete perfume or cologne. You don't have to look like a movie star, don't wear anything flashy or outrageous, but a clean cut appearence can go a long way. People tend to approach a lot more strangers who look like they can keep it together rather than people who look like their whole life is chaos.

2.      Let go of nasty singles' habits. Whether you are a bachelor or a single girl, you surely have one or more of these. If you live alone and you never invite people over, your place is probably… pretty bohemian. Spruce up your place and be open for the idea of having someone over. Also, video games and chick flick marathons are counter productive.

3.      Cultivate a sunny positive attitude. If you are looking for a relationship, the best piece of advice is to control your negative urges. Jealousy, insecurity, madness are all things to avoid. You would do yourself a huge favor if you would just stop all these toxic emotions from manifesting themselves as they consume a big portion of your vital energy. Also, by exhibiting a light, cheerful, happy state of mind you will attract people of the same mindframe. Who knows, one of these people might prove to be exactly your size.

4.      Expand your interests' horizon. This means it's good to keep your mind active and your hands busy. Learn new skills and acquire new hobbies. Whether it's knitting or taking flying lessons, building models or practicing origami. Dance lessons or a book club. Any of these can bring you face to face with new people, and more importantly, people you might have something in common with. So go ahead and immerse yourself in something you've always wanted to try and see what happens. Showing passion for something shows you are loyal and that is attractive for relationship seekers.

5.      Don't become desperate. Don't start getting depressed and conclude that you'll end up alone surrounded by mean cats. If you ever get like that, revisit pointer number 2. and don't start handing out business cards on the street either. But seriously, you should look at things in a different way: you are temporarily a free agent, someone who can go on a spontaneous journey without having to consult anyone. A person grows when he or she is spending some time alone.

6.      Go out with your friends. If you are looking for a relationship, a serious one, don't play the already worn out wing man (or wing woman) routine. That's just lame and it puts too much pressure on that single outing. Pick a favorite spot and go there with your friends regularly. Try having fun and letting your hair down without appearing to be on the prowl. However, if you see someone you really like, don't hesitate to approach them. Who knows what you might start?

7.      Be gentle and polite. When looking for a relationship, you always want to show you are indeed relationship material. So try to help people with honest good will without expecting compensation in return. Also, try smiling a lot when talking to people and looking them in the eye, that shows a certain level of respect. It's a bit old fashion, but this sort of behaving which exposes immaculate manners is quite charming. 

You just read the best tips for someone whose looking for relationship. Now go ahead and use them with confidence, you won't have to wait long until you'll find the one who's right for you. Just don't give up that easily and keep trying.

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