Risk Love And Trust

Love is the strongest of emotion and this is the reason that people don’t mind taking any level of risk in it. The biggest thing in any relationship is trust which has the capability to move mountains and stop oceans. Love and trust combined together form an integral part of relationship. And when issues happen it is only love and trust that stands out to maintain a sane and healthy relationship. But problem happens and that happens with everyone. Love and trust has the potential to stand the test of time but when trust gets broken the impact on love is tremendous. When trust fall like pack of cards, love gives the pain which is not easy to survive.

Contrary to popular belief about first love, I believe Love can be memorable without any history and hinges being attached to it. Just like first love can be painful so can be second, or third or even later ones. It is just how deep impact a particular relationship makes on a person that decides whether it can be forgotten easily or not. Human being potentially is in search for something new every moment and the quest for love remains as top priority. It is only when this need get satisfied that other need gets a chance to percolate. But till that time the need for love always remains.

Life encourages us to take risk and the situation can be related to love too. Lets look more deeply how risk gets associated with love and trust and what we can potentially learn from it

Everybody falls in love

1) The true love and not infatuation

2) The one that has different feeling

3) The one that has lots of emotions attached to it

Some People

1) Are lucky to get the one they love

2) Are lucky to get someone who love them a lot

3) Very lucky to develop it after getting into relationship

And when that happens life becomes very beautiful. Definitely the pain is gone because we start to live in the company of one we love. Love and trust blossom and there is eternal bonding.

But sometimes some people are not lucky.

1) This happens when third person comes into picture

2) This happen when we fail in relationship

3) This happen when infidelity comes into picture

The pain a person get in such situation is enormous. The heartbreak is a big blow to relationship and it breaks all trust that had been established.

1) A break up happens

2) We don’t like to talk or see face of another person

3) It is too difficult to forget everything

But somewhere deep inside love still remains though with deep pain.

The breakup happens so fast that people hardly get time to think and act. But when realization comes into picture the journey becomes more painful

1) The person at fault can ask for forgiveness

2) The other person cannot forgive because trust has badly been broken

This is very critical moment because almost each one of them wants things to be same as earlier. However the breach of trust and its recurrence in future keep them wondering if they would like to commit again.

The big question always remains- Should you forgive each other and let love blossom again?

And the answer is simple- Are you ready to risk love and trust again in relationship

If the answer is Yes, You need to take risk again in love and trust the person again. You can be right or wrong but that only time will tell.

If the answer is No, then you need to be strong and stand beside it. Only problem is that somewhere in your heart there is a voice that would urge you to give love another chance. You need to face that everyday.

If you happen to Risk love and trust then all you need to do is

1) Take some time out and consider your decision

2) Accept it without any preconditions

3) Risk love and trust to flourish the way it has been earlier

I understand that at times it is very difficult to forgive when trust has been broken badly. Incidentally, life is a long journey and sooner or later things show up their true face. It is easy to blame other person rather than yourself but sometimes you can be at equal fault too. There is no harm in giving other person a chance and risking love and trust again if deep inside you there is a voice that wants you to do so.

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