Signs Of Being In Love

Being in love is one of those things which always take you by surprise. It’s because love is constantly a step ahead of you, creeps in when you least expect it, when your guard is down and it nestles deep inside your chest. And it shows up, it shows up in form of signs of being in love. No matter how much you avoid these signs do show up. However to be sure, there are some signs by which you can diagnose it prematurely or in the first stages of development.

So here they are, the main signs of being head over heels in love:

1. Sleep deprivation doesn’t appear to have an effect on you. You can lay wide awake all night long or sleep like a new born baby and you are equally rested or equally tired. The sun and the moon do not exist anymore, your day is divided into time spent in the proximity of your loved one and time spent being deprived of their heavenly presence.

2. You can’t focus easily. It takes a lot of determination and inner strength to keep your thoughts away from the skin, the smell or the smile of your lover. At work, all the assignments seem to have some connection with the object of your affection and your suggestions are going to sound crazy to your colleagues. Your girlfriend can’t be the only suitable female to pose for the fall/winter catalogue so try to be professional. It is an important signs of being in love.

3. Excessive and pointless walking about. You are not an official guide to the city, yet you’re taking miles and miles worth of walks daily. You have found this excess of energy and you don’t know what to use it for so you just burn it by tracing circles through parks, zoos and botanical gardens. No wonder you prefer places with loads of green, you need to be surrounded by beauty and fresh air. The only place that can be a lot more wonderful is the place of residence of your loved one. And don’t even try to fool yourself – you know you walk past it every night.

4. You want to hear his / her voice all the time. Since you’ve heard that lovely sound you never want to hear anything else. It’s the perfect lullaby and the most exquisite piece of music ever composed. It calms you down; it gives you the joy to live and fills you up with hope. Everything else is annoying as hell, that’s why you call your lover up at the most unpredictable times. It doesn’t matter what he/she actually says, just that you know he/she is there, breathing. If this isn’t a clear sign you’ve fallen in love, what is? So if you are restless, this is one of the signs of being in love.

5. A tendency to be more thoughtful to everyone else. You are bursting with good thoughts, wishes of happiness for everyone and compliments. They do sometimes say love is selfish, but this kind of enthusiasm that you’re feeling is enormous and cannot be contained. Your mother got her Mother’s Day flowers and card, you didn’t forget to buy your sister that scarf she secretly longed for, and generally speaking, you seem a lot more tamed. Like a lamb. No sign of riot, for once everything feels right in the world, like it’s playing a harmonious tune just for you and you of course take the chance and dance to it. Take advantage as this feeling of complete peace comes once in a blue moon.

6. General disorientation and forgetfulness. Where am I all of a sudden? How did I get here? And what is my purpose in this place? If you’ve asked at least one of these questions more than once lately, it’s a sign of being hopelessly smitten. Definitely, one of signs of being in love.

7. Behaving giddily and utterly more foolish. You’re not usually a puns and tricks jester or at least you haven’t been one since your teenage years, but now it’s like somebody opened a jack-in-a-box and it keeps bouncing with no hope of putting him back in soon. You crack some inappropriate jokes in the office and nobody takes offence, you are the life of the party especially if your beloved is around and basically you show off much more than it’s advisable.

8. Being wide eyed and smiling for no apparent reason. As a certified sign of being in love, mood swings have been reported. However, no matter if you are in a blue or in a pink period, you must surely have big eyes and a sort of absent-minded smile glued to your face. Your dilated pupils and that incandescent smile will give people the impression you are living in your dream world and my guess is they wouldn’t be far off.

These were 8 signs to follow if you think you might be falling in love. Infact these are signs of being in love. If you think your condition progresses too rapidly, please do not see a physician and by all means do as your heart tells you.

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