Symptoms And Signs Of Low Self Esteem And How To Overcome Them
Do you blame others or time for things which have gone wrong because of you? Do you feel sorry for everything even if you know you were not the one who was responsible for it? Do you feel dejected in your life? Do you invite death often? Do you feel you are not living the life enough and you cannot? Do you depend on others to accept yourself? Don’t you know where to draw a line between your personal and other issues? – If the answer is yes for at least three questions, you must be a person of low self esteem. You tend to exhibit all these characters when you lack self esteem and depend mostly on others without knowing what and why.
People with symptoms and signs of low self esteem are around you, all the time. It is necessary that you, if one among those, overcome this problem as soon as possible. These signs of low self esteem are killers which can stake you from the social society. It’s a fact that there are endemic proportions of people with this attitude. This article aims at projecting some 10 symptoms and signs of low esteem commonly found among people. Additionally there are pointers on how to overcome them with minimal effort.
1. The body language: The first and primary. Your low esteem sign is exhibited with such an attitude where you put your head down with hands in the pocket feeling dejected in life. People who meet you can easily assume that you have a very low self esteem or an inferior complex. There is not much difference between both. They are the outcome of symptoms and signs of low esteem and you should be prepare to overcome them.
Solution: Be normal as other people are. Put your head up and look straight. You have never lost anything in your life. You are confident enough to face and tackle the problems. But do remember when you look down, you are not concentrating at the problem but trying to avoid it. When you look at the problem straight, you are out of your troubles and you easily get a solution.
2. Don’t feel Sorry: If you are one such person who feels sorry for whatever has happened, it directly implicates your symptoms and signs of low esteem.
Solution: Nature has always got something for its creatures. You, all the time cannot be responsible for whatever is happening. Avoid that attitude and instead try to identify what went wrong where and sort it out. Look for a solution with confidence. Again, nature has an answer for a struggling yet confident mind.
3. Compliments: Do you always say, “Oh, come on… I don’t deserve that!”? If yes, that doesn’t mean you are humble. It means you are articulating your low self esteem in another phase.
Solution: Accept compliments. Compliments are not flattering. They are the outcome of reality, your hard work and others tendency to praise your work. Take them, build your confidence.
4. Anger: Is it true that you simply get angry with no reasons? Or even if there is so, is it a fact that you think later that you have shown your anger where it was unnecessary? Mind you, this is also a terrible symptoms and signs of low esteem.
Solution: Look at the place and the problem rather than getting angry. Keep it so simple. Remember that there is nothing serious. All you can do is not what you can do without any problems. Getting angry over the situation makes you go worse and if it is over the people you lose respect. Both instances are not good for peaceful life.
5. Depression: Here you go with the most important point – Depression. Depression is the most important sign of low esteem. When you are always depressed, it means you cannot mingle with people and you lose a social interaction. With a lost Social life, you are an absolute zero.
Solution: Simple. Identify the reason for depression. Take psychological counseling if necessary. Be confident over yourself. There is nothing that you lose and nothing that you gain. Work is directly proportional to what you gain. Be confident about yourself.
6. Social life: If you hate being with others or feel adverse about being with others, you really need to take immediate attention on yourself. This isn’t a simple issue, after all. Man, as we all know is a social animal.
Solution: The entire problem is because you have taken to yourself that you are an error in the society. Learn that you are not so. Be cheerful and happy all the time. Request counseling whenever necessary to keep you free out of depression and develop confidence in you.
7. Failing to take risk: Obvious! If you have a low esteem you don’t offer to take a risk. You might always want to safely come out of the problems and other related issues. Check if you demonstrate this symptoms or signs of low esteem and need to go full strength to over come them
Solution: Be confident on yourself. If you can’t understand you, no one can. Eradicate this low self esteem thought at the earliest.
8. Look into others: Now this is a very common issue of the people who don’t have enough self esteem. They don’t look into the eyes of other people. This is probably because they lack confidence and don’t know whether they are right or wrong. They believe others are more powerful in thoughts and actions other than them themselves.
Solution: Do understand everyone is unique. Be brave enough to face others and express ideas clearly. Be clear with whatever you say.
9. Frustration: Do you get frustrated or pissed off often? Then you are deeply into the signs of low self esteem.
Solution: Understand the facts of life. Take it in you to understand mistakes are common and you are not alone to make mistakes. Liberate yourself from this odd feeling of yours.
10. Negative and hopeless language: If you always use “I cannot…”, “No… That’s not possible”, “I wouldn’t… ”, then you are showing a sign of low self esteem.
Solution: Be confident. Say to yourself that you are capable. Feel the difference.
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Improve yourself. This is the time. There are many people around you who want to be with you, love you. Throw away low self esteem. You are one such unique creature of nature. Enjoy every moment with others. So next time if you demonstrate any of the symptoms of signs of low self esteem, you know how to need to get rid of it or overcome them. All the best!
This is a Guest Post Written By Khushboo Sheth
Photo Credit- Corie Howell
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