The Recipe of Success – Conditioning Yourself to Hit Bull’s Eye

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The Recipe of Success – Conditioning Yourself to Hit Bull’s Eye

14 May 2009 No Comment

The Recipe of Success – Conditioning yourself to succeed is a more of a process than a simple hack which you can apply to your life. Success is always a journey of thresholds which you need to achieve one after another. There is almost never an end to it because of human appetite to grow from strength to strength. We see examples of all successful people who have achieved different thresholds in life and now command a position which is difficult to achieve. What we miss to see is their journey from one threshold to another and the hard work which they have put in each of it individually. Their journey is indeed painful but persistence makes them enjoy every bit of it. They condition themselves for success every moment and are not afraid of failure.

Failure always is the inability of the person to achieve a threshold. Those thresholds can be big or small depending upon their nature. The social system set up in this world makes sure that thresholds are presented to you in an appropriate manner through a well established education or employment system. The people who master them see themselves successful in life while there are others who struggle at various phases and achieve them much later than their peers. Even in our personal life there are thresholds of personal development which govern the way we feel about ourselves.

So let’s talk about the recipe of success which makes them as sweet as sugar.

Why People seldom gets successful in particular field

1) They start something

2) In short time they lose interest and start something else

3) Again they lose interest and they either quit or start something else again.

The Recipe of Success

End result is that they

1) Keep pondering on various choices available in various field

2) They keep wasting precious time in all those choices

3) Finally the field in which they settle is a result of frustration arising from failures then their normal choice.

Yes it is bare Truth which decide the career of many people- Frustration

1) They run after something which is more glamorous.

2) They get unsuccessful and lose interest.

3) They start something else and lose interest

4) This takes much of their time

5) They finally settle for something on which they can get their hands on rather than their choice.

Such People Miss in their Life the Video Game Approach

Let’s talk about the Video Game Approach. You play video games. I am sure you do

1) You start a new game

2) You try first round but lose. You start again

3) You try, try and try the first round again till the time you cross it.

So what is different here?

1) When the game gets over you start again

2) You keep doing that till the time you cross that round

3) Once you cross that round you move to next

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The game of life is same as video game. Only difference is that personals Goals are not entertaining as that of rounds in video games.

Now look at some of successful people like Michael Jordan, Michael Phelps, and Tiger Woods. What is different about them than the others who tried to pursue their career in the same field? They achieved their goals in life by crossing thresholds. They took the video game approach

1) They started and failed

2) They started again and again and again

3) They did that till the time they got what they wanted

Yes,

1) They were not born winners

2) They Worked towards success

3) They developed the habit of success

And you know the fuel that kept them running- Dream

1) They live Dream

2) They eat Dream

3) They Breathe Dream

The Dream to win the game and get successful kept them running in the race. They failed often but came back again.