This Is Your Fight And You Have To Win It

We all love to live in comfort zone. It is easy for us to shed our responsibilities and cleverly put blame on others. There is always an element of “You” in our lives which we cleverly use. But when we do that we simply forget that we have lost another battle or an opportunity which would have taken us far in our lives. Yes, for me opportunities are everywhere be it be for learning, elevating my mindset or acquiring new skill. But the biggest enemy of us all is the comfort zone, laziness, negative mindset and above all keeping expectations from others.

We all expect that things would themselves come to us. We always hope of an opportune time when miracles would happen and we would be rewarded. Opportunities come and go in front of us but that one moment somehow never comes. We are always waiting and the wait never gets over.

So let’s talk more about the fight we all have to win in our lives with some examples to help you clearly understand what I am talking about

We keep different expectations

1) For our job for higher pay

2) From our luck for more money

3) From our abilities of rising higher in life

But What we miss in all these expectations is that they involve lot of hardwork

1) We need to be among the best to command the salary we want

2) We have to earn money than expecting a windfall gain

3) We have to work and take risks in life to create opportunities to rise higher

Instead we

1) We hope that without effort our Boss or superior would notice us

2) Buy lotteries, put money in lotto and daydream of sudden hefty gains

3) Just day dream that we would be sitting on some senior position in life.

While we do that we simply forget that this is our Battle and no one else would fight for us. It is I who has to take next step and grab the opportunities.

1) There are opportunities around waiting to be taken

2) The opportunities invite us to fight and grab them

3) It can be a long battle but people who win are people who know how to persist.

Clearly, It is our own fight and it is foolishness that someone else would come and do all this work for us.

On Job

1) Your positivity and Experience matters

2) How smart you are shows up in the growth you get

3) The more proactive you are the more opportunities get attracted to you

To Earn More Money

1) You have to create a path for it to come to you

2) Shed all beliefs and trust only on your smartness and hardwork

3) The moment success starts to come, you should know how to multiply it

To Get Senior Position

1) You have to demonstrate your abilities

2) You have to emanate charisma

3) You have to truly deserve it

And For all Of the Above- You have To Fight On Your Own

Yes, You need to leave your comfort zone to grab whatever you want to achieve in life.

Remember, there are many failures, many hit and trials before you would find your own flare. Prudence lies in starting today without wasting single minute.

Flare Yourself Up. This is Your Battle