Read this post if you picture yourself as a successful person in years ahead. You think you have all the ingredients to make it a success in life. Think again. How much you know about yourself. How much you know about the person in front of you. Do you know how to play with mind? Do you even understand the mystery behind human mind? You react towards a situation without knowing the fact that you can control the situation rather than reacting towards it. It’s all in the Mind. The make or break, the win or loss, the success or failure, gets controlled through the core within your mind.

Human Mind is made of two Basic elements

1) The Good, and

2) The Bad

Just like villain and heroes in the movie they enjoy you in form of role you play in daily life. They are like 2 balloons occupying limited space in your mind. How they behave depends upon the situation that arises in our daily life. Their behavior can be understood from three scenarios

1) During normal situation both good and bad balloons adjust themselves in equal space

2) In Positive situation the Good balloon expands while the Bad has to contract down

3) In negative situation the Bad balloon expands while the Good has to contract down.

So let us see some examples where the Good Balloon expands and the Bad balloon has to contract

1) You are generous

2) You have love in your mind

3) You get honors

4) You get appreciation

5) You win in any competition

Also let us see some examples where the Bad Balloon expands and the Good Balloon has to contract down

1) You get angry

2) You seek revenge

3) You harm someone

4) You avoid being rational

5) You become mischievous

Think about someone you love and see how relax you feel. At same time think about someone you hate and see how restless you feel. You get angry, clinch your fist and get almost ready to hit him. It’s natural because the bad balloon in your mind expands.

If you understand this logic you would understand the key to human success.

Now that you know something about two balloons you must know

How to Steer Yourself- For success you should know how to steer the two balloons in your mind. You get unsuccessful only because the bad balloon expands at the wrong moment. Your balloons expand for a reason and if you develop the ability to control the expansion you get the ability to control the situation. Take an example

1) You hate your Boss. The sight of him makes you feel bad about him

2) One day he said something bad to you. You felt bad

3) The bad balloon in your mind expands

4) You confront him and in process you harm yourself.

Situation would have been different if you had concentrated on the moment where bad balloon had started to expand. Whenever you confront such situation

1) Think of Good and Bad Balloon

2) Visualize the one which is expanding

3) Make effort to make good expand. The bad needs to contract

There are many ways to handle your Boss or any of the Bad situations

1) Provided you realize that Bad balloon is expanding

2) You Make conscious effort to expand Good Balloon

If within you there is feeling that no matter what happens you have to be good than no matter what happens you would achieve anything you want in your life. I call it basic principal of Personal Development.

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How to Steer Others- The balloon approach is very helpful to understand other human beings too. When you interact with person you interact with two balloons he has in his mind. You have the ability to control the expansion or contraction depending upon the result you want to achieve.

You can make anyone angry if your behavior makes the bad balloon expand. You can tease a person, Abuse, or say bad words to make that happen. Instant reaction would be a fight back which is more than anticipated.

Likewise praise other person, be helpful or help them and you would get good things in return. This happens because of Good balloon expanding in limited space.

Visualization of balloon in any situation can help you control the situation. Once you realize this all that is then left is to take the situation to your advantage.

For success taking situation to your advantage is the KEY

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