The subject of what a man loves in a woman is a very tricky one. Of course, this is a very personal matter. No one can say for sure what it is that men love in women, it could be just biological but it’s probably more than that. What is clear instead is the fact that men can’t live without women. Getting the right girl is one of the most important things in a man’s life. The chase for women is what drives men to do some of the greatest things in the world, but also some of the stupidest. So what is it that makes men go to improbable lengths just to get women? The need for love, the need for attention, the need for a family, or is it all these things combined? Let’s try and find out, shall we.

·        The support. It is said that behind every great man is a powerful woman. It might sound like a cliché, but it is a tried and tested axiom.  Every guy knows that without the support of his women he would be nothing. Men usually take this support for granted and don’t appreciate it as they should.  But this is one of the most important things that men look for in a woman.

·        The chase. The old expression “it’s not reaching the end but the journey itself that was exciting” can be applied to the relation between man and women. The primordial part of the man’s brain, the one with the hunting instinct is still alive and kicking today. But from the actual ritual of hunting this has morphed into chasing the women one loves. This subtle transformation has led to one of the most curios answers to the question what a man loves in a woman: the tease. Women that don’t give themselves up completely and in a short period to the man they love have more chances of keeping men interested by teasing them. Never knowing if they will reach the end, which is getting the girl, a man is more excited about the journey.

·        The fragility. Men want to feel strong. Their ego is very important to them so having somebody to take care of is always a boost in that area. This is one of the reasons men love women. They know they have the superior physical strength, which is not always true in some cases, and it makes them feel good about themselves, makes them think they have some kind of an advantage over women. Of course this also can be traced back to the early cave men where the difference between sexes was more acute and physical strength was much more important than mental capacity. In today’s world a smart women can use this constant need of stroking their ego that men have to make them do almost anything they want.

·        The stability. One of the defining characteristics of women is motherhood. And usually the notion of mother in a man’s life is associated with stability, someone who’s always there for you no matter what happens. In a strict Freudian analysis it’s safe to say that what a man loves in a woman is the fact that they are reminded by their one mother.

·          The feminine touch. Even though sometimes this feminine touch can be very annoying to men, mostly it’s something they love about women. Things like the attention to detail, to correct etiquette in certain social situations or even the matching of the appropriate colors for the living room: usually colors that men never even heard of such as mauve turquoise.

·        The idea of a family. Everybody knows that the woman is the motor that keeps the family going. Form taking care of the household, to raising the children, to knowing exactly what goes where women have an extraordinary sixth sense when it comes to keeping the family happy. Traditionally men are just preoccupied with supplying for the family but they know that actually women do all the work when it comes to family matters, and this is something they love about them.

·         The fake challenge. Men love it when a woman keeps them on their toes. Men are very competitive so they sometimes perceive women as an adversary. Women don’t have this sense of competition so embedded in them but they know how important it is for men. However women use this knowledge to their advantage and find insignificant pretexts to ignite small fights which they let the men win just so they can satisfy their huge egos.

Of course the basic question of what a man loves in a woman can’t be so easily and categorically answered. There are many nuances that have to be taken into consideration but what it all boils down to is that men still have that traditional idealized version of the perfect woman: the one who takes care of the household and raises the kids, the one who offers stability and support, and most importantly unconditional love.

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