You have reached a certain age and you have lived most of your life in your own marvelous world feeding on scientific curiosities, botanical trivia and adventurous novels. But now you woke up and took a look around only to realize that something is missing. And you started to ask yourself: Why can't I get a girlfriend, just like every other guy I know? My guess is that your social abilities are a bit rusty or nonexistent if you've never cultivated them and you should take your time and actually learn how to handle people. After you become a scholar in the field of public relations you can move on up to the next, much more advanced level: talking to girls. Here are some things that might help you reach your main goal sooner:

1.      Improve your basic hygiene. If you haven't gotten this by now, the situation is very serious indeed. Why can't I get a girlfriend? you ask innocently. It's because either you don't brush your teeth often enough or you have pimples or you smell bad, either one of these is quite repulsive for a girl. If you are still an adolescent, the hormones can't be helped but try washing your face daily and applying some sort of treatment, but not covering the imperfections with makeup.

2.      Develop an individual style. I'm not saying you should follow the trends or pretend to be someone you’re not, but each one of us has certain preferences which define us and expressing those make you stand out. You can start by wearing a shirt or a (school) bag with your favorite band or line from a movie on them and then develop your style from there. Or if you like clothes in military style or if you like wearing a hat or shorts in winter, that's also an excellent way to get noticed. Your haircut and cologne should complete every outfit.

3.      Be witty and funny. Many of those who end up asking themselves desperately why can't I get a girlfriend? really underestimate the power of smart humor. You don't necessarily get a girl by flattering her; it's by showing your easy going side. You should just relax and make ludicrous remarks and be all nonchalant about it. The more original you manage to be, the better.

4.      Be sure of yourself, not arrogant. Why can't I get a girlfriend? The answer might be that you can't hold your ground, that you are too silent and not confident enough to voice your opinion. If this is true for you, change that immediately. It will take some effort to push all that shyness away, but it must be done. Girls one someone who can stick up for them in times of need, they want someone strong and dependable and getting to a zone where you accept yourself and trust yourself to be capable of accomplishing things is just the first step. Just don't overdo it and fall into cockiness, girls run away from that.

5.      Pay attention. Girls are almost like a different species in behavior and way of thinking, concerning their emotions and reactions. Take some time to observe these delicate creatures in the wild, maybe even giggling with their fellow companions. You will deduce many vital aspects about how they expect you to be, what to do and say and when. Plus, spying on girls can be so much fun.

6.      Be sensitive. Whichever side of your personality it comes from, take advantage of it and bring it to the surface. Your care for tiny creatures, your somewhat geeky concerns and your desire to listen to every word she utters are all signs you've passed sensitive training. Once you get to this point, just show her that she's the only one to whom you show this kind of attentive behavior.

7.      Become a smooth operator. Otherwise put, be sneaky or seize every opportunity to get the girl you want. A piece of wisdom: once you've figured out you want a girlfriend, don't go chasing after every female in sight. Choose a girl that you think is cute and at the same time approachable, a person whom you'd have some things in common with.

8.      Friends first. So … why can't I get a girlfriend? Because you don't know girls well enough, for one thing. So, this pointer is pretty controversial, but you should try being friends with the girl you want. She will reveal personal information which otherwise you would never have had access to and you would both be much more relaxed. For a freshman, you don't need the pressure of the first dates. Just don't wait too long to make the transition, or else it might never happen.

This was the harsh truth, the reasons why you can't find a girl of your own, but also some ways to remedy that situation as soon as possible. So, instead of ceaselessly wining why can't I get a girlfriend? take a stand, change something drastic and then start the hunt.

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