Whenever there is a fight going on between two nations or even between two people, a simple yet important question arises that why we fight? What is the use of fighting? And the answer is pretty simple. It just changes its form in one another. The few main reasons why people fight are land, religion, money, power etc. These are different forms of fight but the outcome is same in all the cases i.e. destruction.

The main or real reason behind such fights is only one feeling of being superior to others. People believe that they are superior and others are inferior and that’s why they fight over silly issues. Sometimes when things are not moving according to our will, even then people start fighting because of frustration. People start believing that they can’t commit any mistakes and if the work is not fine then it has to be a mistake of somebody else and in order to point out that mistake, they decide to dehumanize others. A normal person who has a good stable mind and a rational thinking would never like to hurt anyone or can’t see anyone in pain because of him.

We all are human beings; we all are born in a same fashion or with same anatomy. Still, we love some people and want to protect them from any kind of destruction but we never mind to even kill others whom we do not even know. Why this happens? Why we fight? There are certain factors which are responsible for fighting. Some of them are as follows:

Compatibility- Many people are in a relationship but they are not compatible enough. And that becomes the main reason of fights between them. Compatibility is a vital element of any relationship. Compatible people can deal fairly well in any situation. When you understand your partner then all the possibilities of fight ends there itself.

Dishonesty- When we trust someone and that trust gets shattered into pieces by the same person and he proves to be disloyal, then people generally fight. It may happen in business or in personal relations that your partner cheated you because of some other reason like more profits, secrets or any other. Dishonesty or telling lies on small or big matters leads to fight after the truth get disclosed. One of important reasons why we fight.

Pride- Many people fight to secure their position. Pride can be fragmented into two ways, negative and positive. Negative pride or in the other words, over confidence leads to fighting. When we feel insecure and when we are too proud on ourselves, we think others are fool and we are the ones who can do the task better. And this feeling of superiority and false pride tempts to fight with others on silly matters.

Fear- If we have done something bad in our past then the fear of being caught by someone disturbs us and we get involved in fighting over silly maters. In this factor, fight depends on our past experiences. Because of some disrespectful act of ours in the past, we feel stress, go through a trauma or even take tensions of what will happen next. All these feelings get combined together and become a fear. And because of that fear, our state of mind gets disturbed and we end up with a fight. It is one of main reasons why we fight

Insecurity- Generally people with low self confidence and low self esteem face this factor in their fights. Suppose, we love someone and that someone is optimistic about life and friendly with others. Then we are not able to tolerate that our partner should talk to other people because it will constantly give us the signals of insecurity. We keep on thinking that he or she might leave us and we start fighting for them. Getting insecure is one of another main reason why we fight.

People fight because of several reasons and certain factors are there which determines their fighting but after realizing our own mistake, we feel sorry and ashamed of our deeds. Whatever is the reason, no matter how much anybody tempts us for fighting, we should not lose our control and should focus on positive things rather than focusing on the negative things. That’s the only way by which we can escape fighting. Why people fight? Hope the mystery got solved now.

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