Men have wondered for ages why women cheat. For some reason, it has always been found more serious and blamable than in the case of men. This double standard has lasted until the present day, even though the stigma isn’t a red ‘A’ drawn on the chest of the adulteress. People call easy women a lot of ways, among which nymphomaniac would be the nicest appellative of the bunch. And we should all face the facts: a woman, who cheats and is known in society for it, will be judged more harshly as a human being. On the other hand, a man who goes astray might even get some congratulatory nudge from his buddies for getting some on the side. It’s an unfair world out there and most of us have made a compromise and accepted it. But still, now we are going to look for the psychological, emotional and sexual factors which make women act upon the impulse of cheating on their partner.

1. It must not be love. There is a firm, but naive thought that you cannot possibly cheat on the one you love, even if you find yourselves thousands of miles apart. So if we take this quite literally, the number one cause of why women cheat is that they are not in love with their partner. This is not easy to define, as love is the most popular, but ambiguous subject in the world, but if she doesn’t care much for you, if she doesn’t show obvious signs of affection at least once in a while, then maybe that’s a sign for the lack of love.

2. Routine. This goes for people who have been in a relationship for quite a while. A second reason for why women cheat is that they get so bored and frustrated they need the excitement; they need to escape into something new, even if it is just a one night stand. A way of avoiding reaching such a dangerously routine state would be to challenge your partner, always come up with something new (it can be a hobby or a new vacation spot).

3. Revenge. This is a tricky spot we’re in here. You should know that once you’ve cheated on your loved one, the level of trust between the two of you will never be the same, even if she does appear to forgive you. Once you’ve violated her trust, you can expect at some point that maybe she will have the intention or even take it to completion to sleep with someone else just to get even with you. They say all is fair in love and war, but this surely appears to be too much, doesn’t it?

4. A game of circumstance. People are very different from each other, and so their will power differs very much. Strong willed people with clear heads will never mess up this badly, but to others, such ‘accidents’ may happen. If she tells you she went to an office party and somehow got so drunk that she lost all her train of though and just woke up the following morning with the pizza delivering boy in her bed, it doesn’t mean she doesn’t love you. Not necessarily. Just that she loses control quite easily and that maybe she’s not the right girl for you.

5. She’s a libertine. If you ask yourself why women cheat, it’s not because they all think they live in the ‘60s when free love was practiced all over the place. They’re not all libertines, but some might have acquired a way of thinking which is very modern indeed. If you never mentioned you wanted to be exclusive, then do, as soon as possible. Otherwise she might think it’s cool to date other people.

6. Lust. This is a pure carnal reason for why women cheat. If you are halfway across the world on some symposium and she meets another guy with whom she shares an irrefutable chemical attraction with, there is a chance she might go for it. Just to experience the thrill. Sure she’ll regret it when the deed is done and she realizes what she’s done, but it will be too late. Still, even that kind of attraction is possible to resist with the right virtuosity.

7. Neglect and frustration. This must be the realest and saddest reason why women cheat. If you don’t show her care, attention and don’t give her a little bit of your time, she will look for love someplace else. The key here is to keep your woman happy if you want her to belong to you mind, body and soul. Remember that a relationship takes constant work.

I listed above the main reasons why women cheat. If you think about it objectively, they aren’t that different from a man’s reasons so if you want to make sure she is cheating, think of what you would do and say to cover it up.

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