How to Make Your Partner not to Snoop Around Your Activities

If your partner snoops around you, it is a sign that he or she does not fully trust or a sign that something is wrong some where. If you examine yo...

 

If your partner snoops around you, it is a sign that he or she does not fully trust or a sign that something is wrong some where. If you examine your relationship with him or her, you will discover that there is something that you are doing which he is not comfortable with. If you have not been having any extra-marital affairs and yet your spouse snooping, there are certain things that you should do in order to put an end to such a behavior. Here are some of the things to do to stop your partner from snooping around your activities.

Avoiding having strong relationship with an opposite

It is in the nature of man to jealous. Though some people may claim that they are not a jealous lovers, in reality, it is difficult to find any person that will feel at ease when their partner maintain relationship with the opposite sex. Having a relationship with the opposite does not mean that one is having an affair with these friends. However, there is always a limit that you can go in these relationship. If you exceed these limits, your partner will definitely become jealous and suspicious. Even without knowing it, he or she will begin to snoop around you in order to find out what you normally do with these friends. So, mind how you keep opposite sex friendship if you do not want your partner to snoop around.

Live an open life

One of the reasons why some most married couple snoop around their spouses is because they feel that their spouses have something to hide. This feeling and suspicion arise when you don't answer all calls before your partners or when you hide the passwords to your laptop, desktop, mobile phone, ATM and others from your husband. If you make appointments with other people especially with an opposite sex without telling your spouse or if you go about your business without letting him or her know your whereabout. The truth is that nobody will be comfortable with secrecy in marriage. So, you should be willing to reveal yourself to your partner and give full account of what you to your partner.

Avoid going to parties and bars alone

If you are the partying type or if you like going to bar, you will end up making your husband or wife to snoop around. Your spouse will definitely not feel comfortable when you are out there alone in the party or bar. He or she may want to know what you are doing in the party or who you hang out with during the party. Secondly, if you go to party with your partner, you should try to be together. Don't leave your partner and go elsewhere. If you must leave, then you should let him or her know your whereabout otherwise, he or she will become suspicious. 

Behaviors that Causes Snooping in Marriage

 

Some married people go the extra mile in finding out what their partners are doing in their absence. They read their emails, check their phone text messages and even go to the extent of installing software that will help them to monitor the calls of their partners as well as their movements in their mobile devices, wrist watches and cars. There are a number of reasons that may cause a man or woman to snoop around the activities of his or her partners. Here are some red flags that may cause snooping.

Claiming the right to privacy

Everybody has a right to a private life. However, this right to a private life may lose its force when one gets married. This is because husband and wife are expected to share secrets and know everything about themselves. There should be nothing hidden about each other. So, when a spouse who is spouse to keep no secret from his or her partner starts emphasizing his or her right to private life, it will give rise to suspense which can result in snooping. A spouse may not talk about right to privacy but can manifest that through his or her action. For example, if you refuse to disclose the password to your computer, cell phone records, social networks and other things from your partner, then you are claiming the right to privacy. When you behave in such a manner, there is every tendency for your partner to think about what you are trying to hide from him or her. The next thing is for him or her to snoop around.

Separation for sometime

It is a well known fact that separation can make somebody to begin an affair with another person. Virtually, every married person knows about this fact. So, if you are separated from your husband for sometimes, there is the tendency for your partner to try to find out how you are living your life in his or her absence. 

Unexplained absences from home

Imagine a situation when your partner comes home and you are not around when you are supposed to be around. Yet, you are not able to explain to him or her where went or try you hide from him or her where you went. Such unexplained absence can make one to become suspicious of one's partner and this can result in snooping. 

These situations may not necessary mean that a spouse is having an affair. But they strongly indicate that the person is doing something that he or she will not want his or her husband to find out. So, if you don't want your husband or wife to snoop around you, then don't give him a chance for that.